# #polyamorous-parenting

> 10 public memos tagged #polyamorous-parenting on MythOS.

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## Memos

- [Parenting + Polyamory](https://mythos.one/me/rachelblair/3884c7): There isn't a lot out here yet. Jamilah (@goodmoms\\badchoices, of Good Moms Bad Choices) and Jessica (@remodeledlove, of Remodeled Love) are doing some of the only visible work on being a mom who's...
- [Being Out Is a Spectrum, Not a Verdict](https://mythos.one/me/rachelblair/b86808): Outness is a spectrum, not a verdict. It is a risk calculation crossed with a values calculation, and both are allowed to land somewhere other than where mine did. This is the F of The FAMILY...
- [Naming the Structure Before Kids Do](https://mythos.one/me/rachelblair/b3c188): Kids are pattern-matchers. They will notice who's around, who stays over, and who gets a key long before they have the vocabulary for it — and if you haven't named it for yourself, you'll improvise...
- [Talking to Kids About Polyamory, By Age](https://mythos.one/me/rachelblair/544240): Answer the question they actually asked, not the one you're braced for. That is the whole of the A in The FAMILY Framework — Age It Right. What follows is not a script. It's a shape, and you fill it...
- [Polyamory and the Institutions Question](https://mythos.one/me/rachelblair/789256): Each institution gets exactly as much information as it needs and no more — and that line isn't about honesty, it's about scope. This is the I of The FAMILY Framework: Institutions & Information....
- [Timing Introductions Between Partners and Kids](https://mythos.one/me/rachelblair/f3b2ae): The single most common mistake isn't dishonesty, it's sequencing — introducing someone before the relationship has proven it can hold weight. This is the L of The FAMILY Framework: Logistics, Not...
- [Finding Your Village as a Polyamorous Parent](https://mythos.one/me/rachelblair/ef11fa): This terrain is thin, and the people already mapping it are worth finding. That is the Y of The FAMILY Framework: Your Village. The list below is short enough to give in full, which is itself the...
- [Polyamorous Parenting](https://mythos.one/me/rachelblair/7f57e9): Polyamorous parenting is the practice of raising children while openly maintaining more than one romantic relationship — and the specific set of decisions that combination forces, none of which are...
- [The FAMILY Framework](https://mythos.one/me/rachelblair/066e02): FAMILY is a six-domain framework for raising kids as a polyamorous parent — decisions to make on purpose, in advance, rather than improvise in a moment you didn't choose. The six are walked in...
- [Polyamorous Parenting FAQ](https://mythos.one/me/rachelblair/254722): The questions below are the ones that actually get asked — by other parents, by co-parents, and by people at 2am wondering whether they're doing damage. Answers are mine, from practice rather than...