📝Mark Goulston suggests this Magic Tip for Changing Your Relationship.

• Reach out to your partner and say, "at my worst, how bad am I capable of making you feel about yourself, or about us, or even thinking it was a real mistake to be in our relationship.
• Next look them in the eye, and say "How bad was that for you?"
• Finally, you say, "Take me to an example of it."
• And then look them in the eye and say, "I'm sorry, I'm going to do better.

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